Why Feminism is for men too – Men Talk Feminism

Generally speaking, because it's morally just that all individuals, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, gender identity, and ethnicity be socially, lawfully, politically, economically, and existentially equal. Hence, Feminism is relavant to men as it is LGBT rights to heterosexuals or ethnic parity to white people. More specifically, given the social status men hold in most intrisically gendered-biased societies, it is their moral duty to bring about change, from within, so that the above could come about.

Because by achieving gender parity, we will be finally pulling the plug on the old-fashionedly patriarchal representation of masculinity whereby a man has to be overly masculine to be regarded as such, one that prevents them men from being their true selves.

Throughout history, we have seen women achieve success by mimicking masculine traits, think of Thatcher. Being raised by a single mother, and seeing her having to make ends meet, alone, in such a gender-biased reality, where a woman has to be "strong" or have an "iron fist" to be able to achieve their goals, had me wonder, but above all, had me decide to be part of the change.

Because we live in a world where gender is becoming less relevant. It is more about people as people rather than relying on the social confines that we have been fed.

Feminism benefits men as it ensures a level thought process and broad outlook rather than a straight laced Tory male outlook which has for far too long been the staple idea if masculinity. It allows a greater depth of feeling and ultimately greater freedom of expression.

Raised by mother I knew no other mindset. It was more normal for me, thanks to her influence, only strange when I realised it wasn't the norm for all. It is easy to spy a narrow mind, and I am grateful that mine was broadened from a young age without any knowledge of it!

Under patriarchy we pretend only half the population is important. This is at best digging ones head in the sand and at worst keeping half the population from maximising their full potential without understanding the cost of this to everyone. How absurd! We are all connected through our hearts and minds. I am not sure how relevant gender needs to be in the equation. Feminism is the door to inclusion for all.

Under patriarchy men live with privileges they haven’t necessarily earned. Knowing this makes us defensive, angry and dishonest. Not knowing this makes us simply ignorant and self deceiving. Feminism is a wake up call to men to be more self aware, more honest and more inclusive. And for men it will be a release from a dishonest burden they carry.

I never really engaged with the stereotypical ‘men’s’ world growing up. And besides isn’t this simply common sense?

1) All the women who I have grown up with, shared houses with shared relationships with would describe themselves as feminist- Therefore feminism has to be relevant to me . 2) Feminism is about Equality Justice and Respect , therefore it is impinges upon men and is valuable and relevant to any man who wants to live in a world of equality and respect 3) Ending Men’s Violence and Abuse against Women is a fundamental call of feminism - Any man who remains silent about men’s violence is excusing and condoning the violence , so again Feminism is relevant to men -

It helps us to understand what we need to do to live in a better world It challenges us to change any inappropriate behaviours It challenges us to do our share of Caring, Cleaning and other household work. It provides vast energy to support the work of White Ribbon campaign when not enough men are active in supporting our work .

I went to an English public school so by the age of 18 had massive feelings of entitlement - for a critique of modern day equivalent see the work of Everyone’s Invited and the 20,000 testimonies of young women’s experience of male entitlement . I had a great sense of Equality.My diaries of that time show that I was challenged by girl friends of the time to do more . At University I lived in mixed communal houses and learnt a lot from the women there. By the time I left University in 1976 I was organising Crèches against Sexism , was interested in the patriarchal implications of Contraception , and shortly afterwards had a relationship with a woman who had been very active in the Women’s Liberation demo at Miss World in 1970. I have been learning ever since , mostly in practice rather than by reading , although I was on the collective for Achilles Heel “a magazine for changing men “

There is inequality everywhere, and inherent biases in most social interactions. Feminism helps men realize the position of privilege we enjoy for no real reason other than being born a certain way. Even higher for cis-het men.

Understanding Feminism helps men realize how to best interact with other people and to recognize the hurdles faced by them due to their gender, race and orientation. It also helps men feel comfortable putting their family and their emotional well-being ahead of their work, and for the organization to recognize that.

I'm sure I didn't, when growing up in an Indian family with 2 elder sisters. I was doubly biased towards (the sole son and the youngest child) by everyone in the extended family. However, my school helped me have normal non-romantic relationships with several girls, so I was less socially awkward in college. This helped me slowly realize the extent of the biases, since I was one of the few boys that some of the girls in class could rely on. During work, I gravitated towards being fully Feminist when I started managing other people. I did end up having quite some debates with family (my parents as well as in-laws) when I decided to take a career break when our son was born. My wife's better salary definitely helped. Now, I feel like a lone voice when I advocate greater freedoms for my niece than my nephews.